Sunday, 13 January 2013

The ‘ Trust’ Email - Story!






“Trust starts with truth and ends with truth.” 
 
Santosh Kalwar, Quote Me Everyday


Below is a very interesting email chain (Unedited – Just Names Removed). A close friend of mine forwarded this to me.

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From:
Sent: Friday, May 18, 2012 12:31 PM
Subject:
 Just a Thought
Importance:
 Low



From: 
Sent:
 Friday, May 18, 2012 12:33 PM
To:

Subject: RE: Just a Thought

Haan but its so difficult………………….it’s easier to say a white lie just to gain someone’s affection………….rather than speak the truth and risk their wrath.

From:
Sent: Friday, May 18, 2012 12:51 PM
To:
 
Subject: RE: Just a Thought

I personally feel that it’s better to risk the wrath than to stay under the illusion which would be  short lived.
 And anyways if you have to gain someone’s affection it has to be on merit.
The person has to accept you in totality, the way you are and not on false grounds.
The relationships on lie are short lived.

regards

From: 
Sent:
 Friday, May 18, 2012 1:59 PM
To:
Subject: RE: Just a Thought

Oh my god………….. totally agree on this with you since I suddenly recollect a lie I told a while ago…….
I had buried it deep into the recesses of my memory till your mail threw up the incident into the realms of  my consciousness.
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Absolute proof of the outcome of a  small white lie………….
you will exhaust a lifetime trying to undo the indiscretion of a moment………
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Last year in dec it was my nephew’s wedding and for one of the functions I wore a vilandi set ( piece of antique jewelry)………..albeit in artificial.
since to make one in real gold and kundan would take around 5 lakh and I could only  afford the one for 5 thousand.
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One of the relatives ( extremely wealthy and arrogant)  complimented me on my outfit and good taste in jewelry
and gushed and oohed and aahed over the neckpiece
and said that her mum too has an identical one………….
I was still beaming and grinning like a fool under the unexpected shower when she …………..
wondered casually aloud  whether it is real.
I gulped and immediately agreed……………...
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Somehow I didn’t have the guts to admit to all in public that I was wearing a fake one.
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Later on spoke to my mil about it.
She said that I must only wear real stuff ( how so ever small or frequently worn it may be)  for family events………….
since it can be easily made out if it’s not authentic.
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The ladies present there in all probability knew that I was wearing a fake one
and now I made a complete fool of myself by admitting to a white lie in public.
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I should have spoken the truth…………sab ko to pata tha.
  
From: 
Sent:
 Friday, May 18, 2012 2:02 PM
To:
 
Subject:
 RE: Just a Thought

See………. That’s what I meant .. ………..
Not to hurt you further but this will always remain with you :-
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one because you lied.
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Two because now others also know that you lied
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and three  with this small lie how much do you think people will be willing to depend on you.
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From: 
Sent:
 Friday, May 18, 2012 2:05 PM
To:
Subject: RE: Just a Thought

Haan re…………..now I can’t even make eye contact with them.
Am actually dreading running into them during future function.

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In social life we can plan an avoid people but in business or at work we can’t!

When it comes to business, all that ultimately matters is TRUST.

Building trust is all about the little things…..

1 Quick Short-Cut to becoming a Star Performer!





Here is a very interesting story I read somewhere on the internet:
        
Butcher watching over his shop is really surprised when he sees a dog coming inside the shop. He shoos him away. But later, the dog is back again. So, he goes over to the dog and notices it has a note in its mouth.

He takes the note and it reads "Can I have 12 sausages and a leg of lamb, please". The dog has money in its mouth, as well. The butcher looks inside and, there is a ten dollar note there. So he takes the money and puts the sausages and lamb in a bag, placing it in the dog's mouth.

The butcher is so impressed, and since it's about closing time, he decides to shut the shop and follow the dog. So off he goes.

The dog is walking down the street, when it comes to a level crossing; the dog puts down the bag, jumps up and presses the button. Then it waits patiently, bag in mouth, for the lights to turn. They do, and it walks across the road, with the butcher following him all the way.

The dog then comes to a bus stop, and starts looking at the timetable. The butcher is in awe as the dog stops a bus by pulling its left leg up and gets in it. The butcher follows the dog into the bus. Then the dog shows a ticket which is tied to its belt to the bus conductor. The butcher is nearly fainting at this sight, so are the other passengers in the bus. The dog then sits near the driver's seat looking outside waiting for the bus stop to come. As soon as the stop is in sight, the dog stands and wags its tail to inform the conductor. Then, without waiting for the bus to stop completely, it jumps out of the bus and runs to a house very close to the stop.

It opens the big Iron Gate and rushes inside towards the door. As it approaches the wooden door, the dog suddenly changes its mind and heads towards the garden. It goes to the window, and beats its head against it several times, walks back, jumps off, and waits at the door. The butcher watches as a big guy opens the door, and starts abusing the dog, kicking him and punching him, and swearing at him.

The butcher surprised with this, runs up, and stops the guy. "What in heaven's name are you doing? The dog is a genius. He could be on TV, for the life of me!" to which the Guy responds: "You call this clever? This is the second time this week that this stupid dog's forgotten his key."

What is the moral of the story?
You may continue to perform really well….you may even exceed onlooker's expectations….but …your Boss may still find you to be nothing but a stupid if you fall short of your Boss's expectations!

That is why they say….Corporate life is a dog's life after all!!!

Therefore it is a great great great skill to be able to manage your Boss’s expectations!
The Expectation-Performance-Judgement grid shown below will drive home this point much clearly:

So now you know how to make yourself more’ effective’ without putting ‘effort’ on your performance! The key is to manage the expectations and it is surely a great short-cut to becoming a star performer!

5 Career Success Lessons - Chris Guillibeau -$100 Start Ups




I recently read the book – The $100 Start Ups by Chris Guillibeau. It is an amazing book and truly inspires you to fire your boss and start something on your own! Chris Guillibeau has travelled to 150+ countries and studied more micro-businesses than anyone else. Though this book is all about firing your boss and starting something on your own it may not always be possible for all of us, for reasons we very well know!
Here are some important lessons from the book which we can apply at our day-to-day work (working under our bosses whom we can’t fire!) and get SUCCESS!
1.       A gap is skills and abilities reveal a golden opportunity! – Look around you. Look at people you work with. Look at the needs of your organization. Equip yourself with the required skill set and do something which is much needed but others cannot do!
2.       Simplify it and bring in the efficiency! – Closely observe the processes which are followed on daily basis. Find a way to simply things, take credit for it and become a star performer!
3.       Do not ignore the controversial ideas!– Many a times we let go of some really good ideas just because we feel them to be too controversial. Apart from being a trend setter these ideas might have the capability of bringing lots of visibility to you and your work! Do not ignore them. Make a start – even if you have a controversial idea!
4.       You don’t need a team! - Often we do not do things because we feel we need a team or at least one more person who thinks as we do, to take up something new. If you are smart enough you may not need any one else!
5.       Notice what frustrates you and find a way to fix it! – Work places are full of frustrating things. Some we want but can never fix but then there are few things which can be fixed. These are opportunities; these are grand opportunities as these may be the next big project of your unit or your company. So look at these frustrating things closely!
And finally as Chris Guillibeau says -  Don’t kill the dream! Live the dream!

5 Management Lessons from Angry Birds




World’s favourite game, developed by Finland based Rovio Mobile, Angry Birds offers some valuable management lessons. Consider these lessons from Angry Birds that could make you a better manager.

1.       Every Resource is important and has a purpose – A manager must appreciate and understand the importance of every resource he has. There is a specific purpose for every resource. Like every bird in Angry Birds has a special quality. It is the duty of the manager to utilize the resources the fullest in the most appropriate manner.

2.       If you play smart, you may achieve your target without using all your resources – While you might be having a number of resources, as a manager you must always think about achieving your target with the minimum resources.  In Angry Birds when you do so you get three stars!

3.       When nothing works, persistence will – Persistence is utmost important. A manager must believe in himself and his team. He should always be positive about victory. Angry Birds has certain levels which truly test your persistence!

4.       You can win in multiple ways – A manager should never restrict himself when it comes to exploring possibilities. In Angry Birds there are always multiple ways to cross a certain level. Same applies to real life problems and problems at work. Always look out for possibilities.

5.       When you enjoy what you do, you deliver your best – Angry Birds though challenging is fun. A manager must keep the fun element at work alive. When you and your team enjoy what you do, you will surely deliver nothing, but the best!

The "Power Plan" to Achieve Career Success in the New Year 2013



  • talk less,listen more
  • stay aware of the moment of truth
  • invoke the wise man/woman within you,not the loser within you
  • replace dabbling with laser-beam focus on something important
  • focus at least as much on being competent as on being nice
  • spend more time with people who bring out the best in you
  • understand that success is not an accident,but a planned event
  • accept the fact that you are fully responsible for your career
  • create a detailed picture of your ideal career
  • identify clear goals based on your own definition of career success
  • know that in order to get results,you must take action
  • learn about the things that get in the way of your success
  • associate with successful people.

The Best New Features in Windows 8


Windows 8 is available for download today, complete with a new tiled, touch-friendly interface as well as some enhancements to the traditional mouse-and-keyboard desktop. Here's everything you'll find in the newest version of Windows.
Microsoft's "re-imagining" of Windows is focused very heavily on a new, tiled, touch-centric interface for tablets. However, it's still somewhat usable with a mouse and keyboard-and no matter what device you're on, you can switch between the simple Metro interface and the traditional Windows desktop to fit whatever your needs are at that given moment.

Performance Increases

The Best New Features in Windows 8One of the issues that's been on our minds since they first previewed this new interfacewas whether this will keep bogging Windows down with more running processes, and whether running a full Windows desktop on a low-powered tablet was really a good idea (after all, we've seen Windows run on netbooks).
Microsoft knows your fears, and has addressed them: Windows 8 is slated to have better performance than Windows 7, even with this metro interface running on top of a desktop. We ran a few tests back when the the Developer Preview came out and found that to be the case, especially when it comes to boot times. Tablet users and netbook users especially should notice a fairly significant performance increase with Windows 8. Especially considering that any of your tablet-based apps will suspend themselves when you jump into the traditional desktop, so all they take up is a little of that extra RAM.

The Lock Screen

The Best New Features in Windows 8Windows 8's lock screen is pretty much what you'd expect: it's got a beautiful picture along with a few little widgets full of information, like the time, how many emails you have, and so on. You can swipe up to unlock, or press the spacebar if you're on a desktop keyboard. You can then proceed to type your normal password, or use one of Windows 8's "picture passwords," which let you swipe or draw an invisible gesture that only you know, using your lock screen photo as reference, to let yourself in (though this is really better on tablets than it is on a PC). For example, in Microsoft's original demo, they used a photo of a person, and the password was to tap on their nose and swipe left across their arm).

The Start Screen

Once you log in, you're taken to Windows 8's new Start screen, which replaces the old Start menu. The screen should be familiar to Windows Phone users: You've got a set of tiles, each of which represents an application, and many of which show information and notifications that correspond to the app. For example, your email tile will tell you how many unread emails you have (and who they're from), your calendar tile will show upcoming events, your music tile will show you what's playing, and so on. You can also create tiles for games, contacts, and even traditional Windows apps that will pull you into the Windows desktop. The tablet-optimized apps are all full screen and "immersive", though, and you can rearrange their icons on the home screen easily (just as you would on any other tablet platform). At any time, you can press Win+D or click on the Desktop tile to go to the familiar Windows desktop instead.

The Desktop

The Best New Features in Windows 8Once you get to the desktop, you'll be in much more familiar territory. You've got your taskbar, your desktop icons, and your normal windowed applications as you're used to (though they have a new, flatter, Aero-less theme). The Start menu, however, is gone—instead, you can move your mouse to the bottom left hot corner and click to return to the Start screen, or press the Windows key as normal. Like the old Start menu, you can start typing any time you're on the Start screen to start searching for an app or setting, giving you quick access to everything on your computer.
It isn't nearly as convenient as the old Start menu was, but you can get used to most stuff pretty quickly. Pressing the Windows button and typing in an app or setting is faster than browsing the Start menu anyway, so it's a good habit to get into, and you can always access a more traditional menu by pressing Win+X—this will bring up a small menu in the corner that has shortcuts to the Control Panel, Run, the Command Prompt, and other stuff advanced users may want to access.

Full Screen Apps

The Best New Features in Windows 8While you can pin your favorite apps to the taskbar, as usual, most of your apps will reside on the Start screen, just like they used to reside in the Start menu. Just fire up the Start screen and tap or click on the tile for the app you want to launch (or, as we mentioned above, type it in the search box). Tablet-optimized apps will go full screen, while others will shoot you back to the desktop.
The full-screen apps that come with Windows 8 are really nice: most have touch-based controls, like pinch to zoom and copy and paste, but you can also use them with a mouse and keyboard if you so desire. Each has options like search, share, and settings through the Charms bar, which you can get by swiping from the right edge of the screen or pressing Win+C. Apps can share information one another easily, such as selected text or photos. After picking your media from one app, you'll then be able to choose which app you want to share with, and work with it from there. For example, you can share photos to Facebook, send text from a web page in an email, and so on.
None of this is brand new to touch-based platforms, but what is new is the ability to not only multitask, but run these apps side by side. Say you want to watch a video and keep an eye on your news feed at the same time. Just like in Windows 7 for the desktop, you can dock an app to one side of the screen while docking another app at the opposite side, which is a seriously cool feature. Imagine being able to IM and play a game at the same time, or browse the web while writing an email. It's a fantastic way to fix one of the big shortcomings of mobile OSes, thus allowing you to ignore the full desktop interface more often and stay in the touch-friendly, tablet view.

The Windows Store

The Best New Features in Windows 8The Windows Store looks much like the home screen, with tiles that correspond to different categories and featured apps. From there, you can look at a more detailed list of the available apps in a given section. And, the store contains not only touch-based apps for the tablet interface, but some of the more traditional desktop Windows apps you're used to, so you have one portal to discover all your Windows apps no matter what interface you're using. The Store has free and paid apps, and you can try paid apps before you commit to buying, which is really, really nice.

Sync All Your Data to the Cloud

The Best New Features in Windows 8The cloud is taking center stage in Windows 8, with your Microsoft account driving all the syncing. Your address book, photos, SkyDrive data, and even data within third-party apps can sync up to the cloud, and you can access them on any Windows 8 device—even a brand new one. Just sign in, and you'll have access to everything (not unlike Chrome OS, which immediately loaded your themes and extensions when you logged in). The address book also syncs with other services like Facebook and Twitter as well. You can even sync all of your settings from one Windows 8 PC to another. Just sign onto your Windows 8 with a Microsoft account and you'll get all your themes, languages, app settings, taskbar, and other preferences will show right up. It's a pretty neat feature if you have multiple Windows 8 PCs and don't want to set them all up separately—just a few taps and you've got all your preferences ready to go (you will have to re-download your apps, though).

Windows Explorer

Windows Explorer has gone through a few changes this time around, most notably the "Ribbon" interface we've come to know from Microsoft Office. Instead of traditional menus like View, you now have three Ribbon panes: Home, Share, and View, that give you access to the features that used to be in the menus. If you're in a folder designed for certain file types—like the "Pictures" library—you'll get a few extra Ribbon panes centered around photos, which is pretty cool. Windows Explorer also has native mounting of ISO files, a one folder up button like the old days of XP (thank God), and a really cool "quick access" toolbar in the left-hand corner that lets you add your favorite shortcuts to the title bar. It also has a new file copy dialog that makes it easier to manage move-and-replace actions with lots of files.

A New Task Manager

The Best New Features in Windows 8Microsoft's finally redesigned the task manager, and it looks pretty great. You have a very simple task manager for basic task killing, but if you're a more advanced user, you can bring up the detailed task manager filled with information on CPU and RAM usage, Metro app history, and even startup tweaking—so you can get rid of apps that launch on startup without going all the way into msconfig.

Built-In Antivirus with Windows Defender

The Best New Features in Windows 8Remember Microsoft Security Essentials, ourfavorite antivirus app for Windows? Well, now it's built in to Windows 8 as Windows Defender. It has nearly the exact same interface and feature set; the main difference is that you no longer have to install it.

Other Features

Along with these cool features, Windows 8 also comes with other features we've come to know and love to see in desktop and mobile OSes alike. It's got system-wide spellchecking, so you don't have to rely on a specific app to keep your writing top-notch, as well as a system-wide search feature, that lets you search anything from your music library to your contacts to the web itself. It also has a really cool feature for desktop users that lets your run the Metro UI on one monitor while running the traditional desktop on the other (not to mention better support for multiple monitors in general—like having the taskbar on both screens).
The Best New Features in Windows 8It also has a really cool feature called "refresh your PC", where you can do a clean install with the tap of a button. Whether you're selling your machine or just want a cleaner, faster installation of Windows, you can do it all in one click. You can even set refresh points, similar to restore points, so you can refresh your PC to the way it was at a certain point in time.

This is a condensed version of everything you'll find in Windows 8, but the best way to see the new features is to experience it for yourself. You can buy Windows 8 right now from Microsoft's online store, or if you're still unsure, you can check out the Release Preview for free (though it doesn't have everything we've outlined above, as it's still a "preview").